Forgive and Forget... For Real

You always say that - you "forgive and forget." But the minute another argument erupts, you bring up that thing that you supposedly forgave for and forgot about. That's not going to get you anywhere. If you're going to forgive and forget, really forgive and forget. If that last argument wasn't forgivable and you know it's something you can never get past, then maybe you're not willing to work hard enough for your relationship or that thing committed was just that bad.